*This is copied and pasted from the newsletters he sends out. Brent Smith offers lifestyle coaching. check it out at: www.absolutepowerdating.com
Let Women Pursue You
Notice I said ‘Let’ instead of ‘Make’. Women are
waiting to pursue you; they’re practically
begging you. I know what you’re thinking: Brent,
it’s not that easy. You’re right, not the
way YOU currently do things.
You spend most of your time trying to ‘Make’
things happen by talking about yourself non-stop
(trying to keep her interested), isolating her for
an hour(to build rapport), asking for her number,
trying to plan a date ETC. You’ve left no time
for Her to do anything. And, you’re not
mysterious, unavailable and you haven’t left her
wanting more.
A woman wants to PROVE that you can’t live without
her. If you show up ALREADY not being
able to live without her, then there’s nothing
left for her to prove. Get it? I hope so.
Consider the following:
* Women actually know that being pursued no longer
works but they don’t know what else to do
and no one is offering them a new strategy or
solution.
* Even if they wanted to pursue you, they don’t
think you can handle it. They think,
that as soon as they start showing interest, that
you’ll change it back to the old way as
soon as possible. They’re actually trying to give
the power back to you, but you won’t take
it. I know this will be hard for some of you to
grasp, but it’s all true.
What do you do?
Stop being so easy!
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